This must be one of the most depressing expat websites in the world. The heartbreak here is phenomenal - for expat women especially, though men clearly get their share of often self-inflicted sorrow. Hong Kong is Heartbreak Hotel.
coupled with what you say perf... the amount of virgins here in HK is phenomenal too. there are so many single women around that it is great for a guy but not so for a women i suppose unless you give it out freely to anyone then there are always takers. this is a strange city with many strange people and very strange and kinky behaviours behind doors and even more so in private clubs, weirdo's!